Farewells to Dick Harrington (W887)
Professor Emeritus of North American Wayfarer Cruising
last updated:  19 November 2024 at 1133 hrs

2024.11.18   obituary
 
2024.06.29   an album featuring Dick at various International Rallies
2024.07.09   an album featuring Dick at various North American Rallies
2024.07.21   an album of Dick at various Chesapeake Cruises
2024.11.15   an album of some of Dick's Cruise log photos

From: Margaret McKelvey [mailto:margaret_mckelvey@yahoo.com]
Sent: Wednesday, June 19, 2024 2:43 PM
To: Tom Graefe; Nel Graefe; Kit Wallace; Patsy Poulin Wallace; Al Schonborn; Jim Heffernan; Linda Heffernan; Mary Abel Krauss; Mary Abel Krauss; Alan Asselstine; Mary Asselstine; Sean Ring; John Kelly; Mike Higgins; Ralph Roberts; Ralph Roberts; Poul Ammentorp; Hans de Bruijne
Cc: Bill Harkins
Subject: Fwd: Passing of Dick Harrington

 

Hello everyone — Thinking about our upcoming rally at Hermit Island, I got it in my head this afternoon to try to call Dick Harrington to see how he was doing.  The subject line says it all. Finding the phone number I had to be out of service, I checked obituaries on line.  When I last talked with Dick to see if he might join us at Wellesley Island - so that must have been during the height of the COVID pandemic - he was doing OK, but not sailing much given the need to care for Jane who was not at all well.  I see from the obituary that she is still alive.  Fortunately, I recall that she had some children who might be able to step in now that Dick is gone.  I certainly wish I had called earlier when I last thought about it.  Please share with other Wayfarers who would have known Dick.

— Margie 


Begin forwarded message:

 

From: Margaret McKelvey <margaret_mckelvey@yahoo.com>

Subject: Passing of Dick Harrington

Date: June 19, 2024 at 2:29:00 PM EDT

To: Patricia Duff <pharringtonduff@yahoo.com>

 

Hello Patricia — I have this e-mail address from a 10-year old message from our dear Wayfarer friend Dick Harrington, so hope it is still current.  I was just trying to call him to see how he was doing and got a recording that the phone number was not in service.  That prompted me to check obituaries and, sadly, did find one for Dick.  What a wonderful sailor and organizer he was!  He very kindly brought my partner, Bill Harkins, and me into the North American Wayfaring family which has been a very important part of our lives for over 20 years.  

Our deepest condolences to you and to your sisters and families.  If it is not too much to ask, please keep us apprised of memorial service plans, particularly if you might plan to have a virtual link for those far away.

Sincerely,
Margie McKelvey

    

Tony Krauss shares some of his many memories of his pal, Dick

From: tmk-11044 [mailto:tony.krauss@gmail.com]
Sent: Sunday, June 23, 2024 9:34 PM
To: Sean Ring
Cc: Tom Graefe; Margaret McKelvey; Nel Graefe; Kit Wallace; Patsy Poulin Wallace; Al Schonborn; Jim Heffernan; Linda Heffernan; Mary Abel Krauss; Alan Asselstine; Mary Asselstine; John Kelly; Mike Higgins; Ralph Roberts; Ralph Roberts; Poul Ammentorp; Hans de Bruijne; Bill Harkins

 

I cannot immediately think of anyone in our Wayfarer group that may have known Dick longer than I have (as usual, i’m probably simply failing to think much, but 40 years is, never-the-less, a long time). We met in 1983 when i moved back to the little burg i grew up in, and currently live in yet again (footnote 1). At the time, Dick had the only Wayfarer at our little club, although over the following ~ 5-6 years, he managed to expand the fleet to six, which, considering that there were probably only about seven, even moderately, committed sailors in the entire club, speaks volumes.

Prior to Dick’s finding his final love in W887, he owned 2389, a Customflex Mk I built in Toledo, OH. i have no idea how he stumbled across her, but then, he did grow up and learn to sail in the Buffalo, NY area, so who knows?

My second-fondest memory of Dick was a pre-race ”meeting” in which i, in a 12’ scow, punched a large hole in 2389’s port bow and my initial thoughts were that Wayfarers must be awfully lightly built. However, when it then dawned upon me that the horizontal beam of my little scow had been cut out of a 2x6, i granted that perhaps it wasn’t all to the Wayfarer’s fault. Dick, ever the gracious gentleman that he was, merely glowered, said nothing, and won.

My fondest memory of Dick was when i had the great pleasure of sailing with him at the 1995 Worlds out of TSCC in Toronto on 887 Blue Mist. We had a grand time, and finished in the middle of the 5 boats US boats, not a bad showing, i thought (my memory was that the last 5 of the fleet were all Yanks, but Al’s history shows i was wrong). Those who knew Dick only in passing may have the impression that he could have the outward appearance of being, if not exactly nervous, perhaps at least a bit ”overly attentive”. This was simply his concern for crew, or others in life generally, for whom his solidly analytical engineering mind had not yet attained sufficient data to say to himself ”Yep, they’re OK, now we can move on.” When i failed to raise the centerboard during a practice race, we nosed over under spinnaker; Dick was probably at that moment the calmest i had ever, before or since, seen him. Not a care in the world: it’s simply a small problem that we get to solve.

I last saw Dick and Jane when we made the jaunt out to Geauga, OH to pay a little visit some 5 years ago. We went on a little vineyard crawl, which was great fun. At one there was a local musician, Colin Dussault, playing before a small group of folks enjoying the Sunday afternoon. Dick and Jane promptly got up and started dancing in the only open area available. Mary told me the people next to us said words to the effect of ”when we’re old, i hope we’re still dancing like that cute little couple.”

But such is my memory: i may be wrong in some details, but my fondness for Dick is not.

(1) As an aside to my Canadian friends, Dick at the time lived in a house that a high school friend of mine, originally from Gravenhurst, ONT, had lived in (it is a very small burg) when we were both wayward youths.

On Jun 24, 2024, at 2:18 AM, Uncle Al <uncle-al3854@cogeco.ca> wrote:

 

Beautiful stuff, Tony. I, meantime, am going through large swaths of W history and picking off the best memory pictures – am nearly through the International Rallies the Dick pics from which will be the first album. The other two will be based on Dick’s #1 invention, the N.A. Rallies, and his numerous logs.

 

Cheers,


Uncle Al  W3854



from Tom and Diane Erickson   (W275  Possum)

From: terickson275@gmail.com
Sent: Sunday, June 30, 2024 8:15 AM
 

I’m forever grateful to Dick.  He was the first Wayfarer I knew.  He encouraged me to go to the first North American rally in Vermont.  That began years of attending rallies and following in his cruising footsteps.  Dick was always helpful, always encouraging, always taking an interest in Diane and me in  W275 Possum.

God bless him..

Tom and Diane


from Sean Ring   (W907)

On Thu, Jun 20, 2024 at 1:34 PM Sean Ring <seanring@msn.com> wrote:


Sad news. Thanks for sharing. 

 

Eternal fair winds to Dick. 



from Tom Graefe  (W9668)

From: Tom Graefe <tmgraefe@comcast.net>
Sent: Wednesday, June 19, 2024 4:10 PM

Hi all,

Sorry news.  Thanks Margie for letting us know.   Many thoughts and feelings at this moment, and warm recollections.

I’ve attached a picture of a relaxed moment of companionship on Blue Mist, 2003, cruising in Maine.

Take are all,

Tom Graefe

Ralph Roberts, international cruiser extraordinaire, checks in:

From: Mrrmr [mailto:mrrmr@btinternet.com]
Sent: Friday, June 28, 2024 10:24 AM

 

... it’s certainly sad to hear of Dick Harrington’s passing, though it’s an inevitability that will happen to us all, and all we can do is to make the most of whatever time we do have left. That’s certainly my plans anyway! I can’t remember the year I invited Dick over to the UK to see how we organized the Wayfarer Rallies, though it must have been after the first International Rally at Killbear which you organized in 1995 I would have thought – never dreaming that it might develop into the popular annual event it now is. I have recently asked John Miller about starting a similar 3 venue annual event in Ireland, though haven’t heard whether this has progressed at all.

Next year’s International rally – No. 33 believe it or not! – is planned for Denmark, where the 2025 Championships is due to happen. So the following year (2026) it would seem time to take the event back to N. America, and wherever the annual Rally is due to be held. (The previous rally in N. America, being the 2022 Florida event). What do you think?

Best wishes, Ralph

from Dick's daughter, Patricia

From: Patricia Harrington-Duff <pharringtonduff@gmail.com>
Sent: November 15, 2024 8:44 AM
Subject: Did you know my father, Richard Harrington (Wayfarer sailor)?

 

Everyone,

 

Let me first apologize for sending a "blast" email to all of you, who have never met me. The email addresses I'm using are derived from old emails and "cruise planning" messages from 2016 - 2019, which I found in my dad's papers. Some of these addresses may no longer be in service. For those emails still valid, I hope I am reaching folks who knew and perhaps sailed with my father, Richard "Dick" Harrington. Due to declining health and the disruptive disaster of the Covid years, I'm pretty sure the last time his dinghy Blue Mist had wind in her sails was late 2019. Dad left us many essays and stories of his sailing adventures. Unfortunately, he didn't leave me a list of his "Wayfarer friends" to contact.

 

My dad, Richard Harrington, passed away on May 9, 2024. You can find his obituary and photos from family at the link below. While I reached out to someone at the U.S. Wayfarer Association at the time, I don't believe a notice was ever posted there. My first objective with this email is just to pass the word a bit as the sailing community was an important part of his life.

 

https://www.lakeeriecremationandfuneralservices.com/obituaries/Richard-Harrington-14/Obituary

 

If any of you are still active Wayfarer sailors and are located close to the Ashtabula, Ohio area (where I have Blue Mist sheltering at a storage unit), that would be good to know. The second reason I'm emailing you all is that, as executor of his estate, I need to put the Blue Mist up for sale. As I posted online, none of us (his daughters) inherited dad's sailor genes, although we all have our own stories to tell - including the demo on how to bail out your dinghy after capsizing, no thanks to an overly enthusiastic Golden Retriever just happy to get a swim. I will soon be making a trip back to unpack the sailing gear stored onboard and elsewhere, to take photos and figure out what I should list as coming with Blue Mist. I'd be happy to take any advice from any of you regarding that prep, and where to list for sale beyond posting on the U.S. Wayfarer site.

 

Thank you for reading, and I hope you are all doing well.

 

Patricia Harrington-Duff

Ellicott City, Maryland




From: Kit Wallace [mailto:kitwallace@hotmail.com]
Sent: Friday, November 15, 2024 6:40 PM
  

Hello Patricia,


Thank you for this note, and remembrance of Dick.  One of Dick's great legacies was setting up the Wayfarer North American Cruising Rally, which I think is coming up for its 25th anniversary. The largest annual gathering of Wayfarer sailors around these parts, was nurtured by Dick in the early 2000s, then delighted and perhaps surprised him by becoming such a popular event.

 

The last time I sailed with Dick was in May of 2019 (photo above) in the Chesapeake Bay when we cruised the islands from Smith to Tangier and Watts. I would never have discovered these amazing places if it hadn't been for Dick's enthusiasm for the waters of the Chesapeake and the watermen who live and fish there. Something wonderful happened on that occasion when we encountered a pod of dolphins who swam right up beside Blue Mist and followed us for a while. Magic!

 

Regarding the sale of Blue Mist, I've added Al Schonborn to this list, an old friend of Dick's who will be glad to hear from you. He manages the Canadian Wayfarer website and will post an ad.

 

Best wishes,

Kit Wallace, W994


From: Brian Laux [mailto:lauxbr@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, November 15, 2024 7:13 PM

 

So sad to hear this news. Dick was a great guy and sailor. Thanks for letting us know.  

 

Brian Laux

W1445


From: Paula Eades [mailto:paulizk@verizon.net]
Sent: Saturday, November 30, 2024 9:32 PM

 

Uncle Al, Patricia ….

  

Yes, Dick , your father , commissioned me to do a portrait of him . I started the painting of him on his boat . I was more than half way through , when my own father got sick and I went to Iowa to care for him . I have the portrait here .   I’ll see if I have a photo on my phone ; if not I’ll send you a photo from my studio .

   

Patricia , I just loved your Dad and was really, really sad to hear of his passing . He was the first one of the Wayfarers that I met at our humble marina, on Smith Island , and I looked forward to his visit and all the Wayfarers , every year . I miss them and I am very sad to hear of your dad’s passing . 

 

I’m feeling ashamed that I never got his painting finished . I’m sure he wanted it to leave to you. I will put the finishing touches on it and get it to you . I’m so glad you’ve reached out . I look at the painting every day …. And wondered if I’d ever get it to you .


Your Dad was an amazing man and a dear friend .

 

Love , Pauli 

On Fri, Nov 15, 2024 at 9:40 PM Uncle Al <uncle-al3854@cogeco.ca> wrote:

Hi, Patricia:

 

Uncle Al W3854 here, Canadian Wayfarer webmaster. Your dad is well memorialized on my sites as fllows:

http://www.wayfarer-international.org/WIC/fondly.remembered/Wayfarers.fondly.remembered.html  and beyond

 

I have a lot of Dick’s fine cruise logs on line at http://www.wayfarer-international.org/WIC/Cruise.Logs/Cruise.Logs.index3.html . If you have logs material of Dick’s – especially actual photos or negs – that I could borrow, I would love to beef up my coverage of the Dick Harrington legend while I recover from my recent quadruple by-pass.

 

Dick is one of three Wayfarer pillars who passed away in 2024 and I have dedicated our 2025 version of the annual calendar. A viewing copy is posted at http://wayfarer-canada.org/2025_posted_view_booklet_v08.pdf  and the print copy will be mailed to all 2024 CWA members. I am copying Kit Wallace if you should wish to receive hard copy/copies.

 

Cheers,

 

Uncle Al  W3854




From: Patricia Harrington-Duff [mailto:pharringtonduff@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, November 15, 2024 11:49 PM

 

Uncle Al,

 

This is so awesome! I'm cc'ing my sisters also. I had put together a chronological collection of dad's stories, mostly hunting and sailing essays, although some of those were pre-publication copies he mailed to me and/or part 1 of 2 where I didn't have part 2. I only had the nicely published copy for a few of his stories. I put together a formatted PDF document and had a limited number of copies printed for family members.

 

I have a ton of photos in boxes, some of which are from his sailing. I'll see if any are identifiably from cruises. Might be some notes on routes or plans as well. 

 

Quadruple by-pass sounds like a significant health challenge. Please take time to heal and don't push yourself too hard. That said, having some favorite activities to focus on is probably good for all of us.

 

Kit, I'd be happy to pay for several copies of the calendar, let me know how to arrange that. Thank you!

 

Patricia


From: Tom Graefe [mailto:tmgraefe@comcast.net]
Sent: Saturday, November 16, 2024 8:57 AM
To: 'Kit Wallace'; 'Patricia Harrington-Duff'; majam41@gmail.com; jheffrnan@nc.rr.com; patkuntz16@yahoo.com; pdknuth@velocity.net; aaa1groen@gmail.com; nelgraefe@gmail.com; cleonard@earthlink.net; bob@rstevenson.ca; robertmoscher1@comcast.net; mary.asselstine@gmail.com; tcgold6@gmail.com; lauxbr@gmail.com; hobieone57@yahoo.com
Cc: 'al schonborn'; tmgraefe@comcast.net
Subject: RE: Did you know my father, Richard Harrington (Wayfarer sailor)?

 

Hi Patricia,

As other have written, Dick is very fondly remembered in the Wayfaring crowd.  I’d add he has many friends in the International Wayfaring community (beyond Canada) as well. 

 

Dick was my cruising mentor, and he and I ran multiple NA rallies together, including the Hermit Island Rally—starting in 2005 and continuing to last summer for the 7th edition.  Dick and I also had two amazing Maine cruises in 2003 and 2004.  So he holds a special place in my heart, and sailing soul.

 

Regarding your task at hand—selling Blue Mist.  As Kit noted, advertising on the Canadian Wayfarer site is a good place to start.

 

There is a page with many reflections and pictures of your Dad put together by Uncle Al (Al Schonborn)on the CWA site now.

http://www.wayfarer-international.org/WIC/fondly.remembered/Dick.Harrington/Dick_Harrington.html

 

You can get an idea of how boats are listed on the CWA site by going to:

http://www.wayfarer-canada.org/forsale.html

 

There is a Facebook group for Wayfarers, though most of the boats that I’ve seen listed are in the UK.  That said, it is still a good place to list it.

It is called ‘The Wayfarer Group’  and is a private group, but I am sure you could request membership and thus post Blue Mist.  If you have any problem I’m happy to post it for you with appropriate directions for contacting you, once you have the material about Blue Mist assembled etc.

 

In terms of the way to describe the sailing kit you have in the inventory here are some suggestions for things to attend to:

  1. Boat itself—likely in good shape as Dick was pretty attentive to it, though perhaps with a bit less energy in later years (pictures from various angles are appropriate).
  2. Sails available and included—likely here at least the Genoa, Main Sail and storm jib (smaller foresail), probably a spinnaker.  Don’t recall if he had more than one of any of these.
  3. Boat cover and boom tent (these are from my recollection)
  4. Trailer—tilt trailer as I recall (meaning it has a ‘break’ in the middle with release pin)
  5. Various other boat equipment—rudder, tiller, PFDs

I know he had a variety of other ‘camping’ items that he used for cruising but these are not as relevant for selling Blue Mist itself.

 

I hope that helps with this practical challenge—always tough but important, and in this case with Blue Mist and sailing holding such a central place in Dick’s life, especially so I am sure.

 

With much affection recalling Dick, take care,


Tom Graefe

W9668


From: Alan Asselstine [mailto:majam41@gmail.com]
Sent: Sunday, November 17, 2024 11:41 AM

 

Patricia and family:

 

I can not add much to the comments of other Wayfarers.  I had the pleasure of meeting your father while cruising northern Georgian Bay in the 1990's.   In the 2000's, we enjoyed sailing, socializing etc with Dick at the annual cruise rallies.  Like others, I learned from Dick and enjoyed sailing with him. 

Attached is a picture from 1997 and a cruise to the North Channel.

 

Alan W7346.  



   

From: Margaret McKelvey [mailto:margaret_mckelvey@yahoo.com]
Sent: Sunday, November 17, 2024 12:42 PM

 

Hello Patricia — Your father was so instrumental in introducing Bill (Harkins) and me to the Wayfarer and to the sailing rallies that have become such a key part of our lives over the years.  He also helped us acquire our own woodie - from a daughter who had, like you, inherited it from her father.  Your father’s memory lives on in so many ways, including with a young French friend who accompanied us to a rally at Hermit Island and who still fondly imitates your dad’s booming voice.  Our rally at Hermit Island this past summer was dedicated to his memory.

 

When I learned of his death earlier this year, I did send a note to a number of North American and European Wayfarer friends of his.  I will forward some of the emails that I got back in response.

 

Here’s hoping that you find a good home for Blue Mist,

— Margie McKelvey